what i learned from jury duty

what to expect jury duty

This week, I got called in for that one event everyone loves to hate… jury duty.

No, I’d never been called into jury services before but oh boy I had heard about it. You know what I’m talking about… the grumblings and eye rolls from friends and family members who had received that one, unwelcome letter. Those grumblings and eyerolls that made one stop and think “Wait, is it really that bad?” I knew it was coming eventually, but let me assure you, “jury duty” was a phrase way off of my radar.

Until it was very much on my radar. And, therefore, on my schedule for this past Tuesday.

Let me tell you… it was a learning experience to say the very least. I’m sure you’ve heard in general terms what it’s like, what to expect, how to get out of it, etc, but I really had no real grasp on what I was walking into that Tuesday morning. So for today’s post, I’m going to walk you through what I learned while on… drumroll please… jury duty. Read on for my tips on what to expect, how to be best prepared, and a runthrough of my day and experience!

Before we get started, I want to clarify that I was not selected to serve in an actual trial. Rest assured, I will not be sharing any sensitive information here. I also want to state that I served jury duty at the Dallas Criminal Courthouse, so this experience is tailored to that courthouse in particular and may not be relevant for other courthouses.

1. Make No Plans That Day

For whatever reason, I had it in my head that I would sit around for a couple of hours and then be released. In fact, I had planned a few things for that afternoon thinking I’d have plenty of time to get them done!

While it is true that some people get released early-on, I was not one of those lucky few. I ended up being there until 4:30 in the afternoon. A full day, indeed!

2. Take A Breath

As a life-long rule-follower, I  worried I’d get arrested if I showed up five seconds after being told to. (Doesn’t “jury duty” just have that feel?) But after hitting traffic and arriving 30-45 minutes after I was supposed to get there, I realized that the process is a lot less intimidating than one would think.

Even after showing up late, I ended up waiting for another hour before anything important started happening. The people around me were complaining that they had been waiting forever! So in the end, I was thankful I had a few extra quiet moments to myself that morning. No one cared or even noticed that I was late. (And I survived the incident without ending up in handcuffs.)

3. Be Vocal

Here’s a fact about jury selection I wasn’t aware of: lawyers don’t really “pick” a jury. Rather, both sides are given 10 strikes each, and with those strikes, their goal is to remove individuals they perceive to have a bias against their client. So during the “voire dire” process (the time given to the attorneys to speak with the jury) the attorneys are trying to get to know the jury so they can decide who to “strike.” And you know who they end up striking? The people who speak up and have a bias.

Now, I’m not saying that you should make up a bias to get out of being selected for the jury. Don’t do that. In fact, you take an oath to tell the truth before you go into the courtroom. (Duh!) What I am saying is that you should absolutely speak up and make your opinion known. This allows both sides to get to know you, and if you are vocal and strong about a certain opinion, odds are one side won’t like it and will strike you.

This was absolutely the case in my personal experience. The 12 jurors (and 1 alternate) who ended up being selected out of our whole group were the individuals who had stayed quiet during the voire dire process. It was amazing how true it actually rang.

What To Bring

  • A Sweater // I have never been “that girl.” You know, the one who carries a portable heater around wherever she goes and insists that she’s cold while in a sweater in the middle of July? Yeah, I’ve never been her. But after I announced I was heading to jury duty, one of you so wisely advised that I take a sweater as the courtrooms can sometimes get chilly. Y’all. I wore an undershirt, a sweater and a cardigan over that, and I was still freezing! So thankful I took that advice.
  • A Book // This is a pretty common piece of advice when it comes to jury duty, but I was shocked at how many people I was serving with who didn’t bring anything to do! All in all, I did about 4 hours of sitting and doing absolutely nothing and would have gone crazy without some entertainment.
  • A Phone Charger // Again, this was a kind tip from one of you! Obviously, you cannot use your phone in the courtroom, but I was surprised at how lax it was when I was waiting around. I’d heard cell phones aren’t allowed, but no one made a fuss about it in my experience! So bring a charger, because you genuinely can’t predict how long you’ll be there.
  • A Lunch & Lots of Snacks// After I was selected to be on a jury panel (basically, the group of people they choose a jury from in a specific case), my fellow jurors and I were given an hour and fifteen-minute lunch break. The Dallas Criminal Courthouse is located in a pretty bad part of town, and there weren’t any good lunch options around. Plus, I would have had to pay for parking a second time if I had left! And let me tell you… the cafeteria options were mediocre at best. I’m so glad I had packed a jar of peanut butter, banana, and a few other things to munch on for lunch.
  • A Water Bottle // Especially during flu season, I would not recommend subjecting oneself to the water fountains found in the courthouse. I don’t ever really bring a water bottle around in my day-to-day life, but am so glad I had one on hand for this day!
  • Cash // While this may not be true for every courthouse, the Dallas Criminal Courthouse only accepts cash. For everything. From parking to the cafeteria. Make sure you have about $10 on hand to cover parking and any snack purchases you may want to make. (I spent $3 on parking and $1.75 on a cup of coffee.)

A Runthrough of My Day

If you’ve made it this far, I commend you! Before signing off, I thought I’d share a brief runthrough of my day on the off-chance that it might help one of you know what to expect!

Like I said above, I arrived at the room specified about 45 minutes after the specified time. I had packed one of my Barrington Totes all the way to the brim with books, snacks, water bottles and such and felt like such a soccer mom. Ha!

I was surprised to see a pretty large room filled with seats – and most of them were full! Someone behind me grumbled that they had been waiting around for an hour without anything happening. (Pat on the back for myself for showing up late.) We must have waited around for at least another 30-45 minutes before a woman at the front addressed us with a mic. She gave us a quick overview of what doing jury service entails and went on to inform us that whenever a proceeding upstairs decided to move forward with a jury trial, she would call up a “panel” for them.

Like I said above, a jury panel is a group potential jurors that are assigned to a particular trial. As fate would have it, she called numbers 1-184 first. Want to know what number I was? 183. You just have to laugh, ya know?

Once she called this group of numbers, she instructed us to go upstairs to a specified courtroom. Once there, we spent more time waiting around. (Are you seeing a theme here?) Finally, two women walked out with clipboards and passed out questionnaires. (I learned that each case has a different questionnaire the lawyers on both sides put together.) Our group’s questionnaire contained a lot of questions about how we felt about the police force, if we watched crime shows and if we felt like that gave us a bias towards prosecutors or defendants, etc. It was actually pretty interesting.

Once we completed the questionnaires, the bailiff (the police officer assigned to the courtroom) called us into the courtroom one by one. I have to say, this part was a bit intimidating. I walked into the courtroom to see the lawyers from both sides standing, facing me as I walked in. (They did this the entire time the bailiff was calling in jurors.)

Another thing I wasn’t expecting? The citizen accused was standing with the lawyers, facing us as we walked in, as well.

I was juror #76 out of #77, and the way the seating in the room worked was that I sat up in the actual juror box with the last twelve potential jurors. I ended up being grateful for these – we had really comfortable chairs compared to the benches the other jurors had to sit on!

After everyone had filed in, the bailiff introduced the judge. The judge assigned to our case seemed professional and kind, and made us all feel at ease. She took some time explaining what type of case we were there for, and went on to reveal the incredibly serious accusation being tried. For some reason, I didn’t actually think that I had the chance of being a juror on something so serious. Finding out the opposite shook me up a bit if I’m being honest. Such a surreal moment.

After this general opener, she asked us jurors some general questions, like “Should this trial go on through Friday, do any of you have flights or important items scheduled that you cannot miss?” A few people raised their hands for surgeries, work trips, etc, and I swear to you someone made up that they had a child. MADE UP THAT THEY HAD A CHILD, Y’ALL. I know that sounds harsh, but when the judge followed up to ask how old the man’s son was, he responded (and I kid you not): “Uhhh… about, um… like, twelve months?”

She let us off for a lunch break, and instructed us to be back for “voire dire” in an hour and fifteen minutes. I took my huge bag and myself downstairs to a random bench, and proceeded to make a quick lunch out of the peanut butter and other snacks I had brought along. Surprisingly, the lunch hour flew by and by 1:30 we were all back to the courtroom.

This is when things started to get interesting. We were called back in, and the “voire dire” process began. Like I explained above, this is when the lawyer(s) from both sides get an hour each to talk to the jury, ask us questions, explain things about the law, etc. Oftentimes, they would present us with a hypothetical situation and say “Let’s see… juror #76, Mrs. Ma’am, what do you think about that?” Mrs. Ma’am (name made up) would respond, and the lawyer would turn to another juror and say “Mr. Sir, what do you think about what Mrs. Ma’am said?” and so on and so forth. You got a feel for different personalities pretty quickly.

It was also during this part of the day that I learned I had a very small chance of making it on the actual jury. Like I explained above, the lawyers don’t really get to “pick” who is on their jury. Rather, they can pick 10 people each they don’t want to be on the jury. After they make those cuts and the judge removes anyone who has a legitimate excuse (flights, surgeries, etc.) the remaining 12 individuals left (in order) make up the jury.

After both sides finished their voire dire, we were instructed to wait in the hall for them to make their decisions. Another hour went by, and we were all ushered back into the courtroom. Again, both lawyers and the citizen accused were standing and facing us as we walked in.

It was a pretty nervewracking experience, and you could feel the tension in the room. The judge proceeded, one by one, to name the twelve individuals who would serve on this case. After she called the thirteenth name (the alternate) I was finally able to exhale. Everyone, collectively, took a breath. The worst was behind us. We didn’t get picked.

As I walked out of the courtroom and to the parking lot (it was about 4:30 at this point) I was filled with a somber gratitude for the twelve individuals who had been selected for the jury. It was a serious case with a serious punishment should a verdict of “guilty” be reached, and the weight of that would be substantial.

I also walked away with a sense of sadness as the reality of the evil that’s in the world set in. My day-to-day for as long as I can remember has been safe, secure, and, right or wrong, shielded from so much of the hurt and darkness that exists. It was a strange and eye-opening experience to realize that “shielding” is not the reality for many of the people in my city, let alone country.

I don’t know, friends. I don’t know that I have a huge takeaway or lesson I learned from my day completing jury service other than a deepened sense of gratitude for the people who keep us safe and a deepened sense of compassion for those who fall into harm through no fault of their own.

I’m thankful to have it behind me for now, and thankful for the perspective it brought to my heart and mind.

I know it was a long one, and certainly a different type of post from my day-to-day, but I hope it helps you in some way.. whether jury duty is on your horizon or not. Thanks for reading!

Love from Texas,


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  1. Briana said:

    Such an interesting post. I was called for jury duty a few months back, but ended up not ever having to actually go to the courthouse. However, all of this is great information to know for future reference! I also appreciate that you used it as a learning lesson—it’s so easy for us to remain in our privileged bubbles and never come face-to-face with the hardships that so many people deal with.

    Really liked this!

    briana | youngsophisticate.com

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  2. Helen said:

    Hi Kate,

    Thank you thank you thank you!! I have Jury Duty Feb 20th and this post was amazing!! I’m freaked out about showing up late, did your dad say that is the case across the board or only in Texas? (I live in CT).

    Thanks again!! Wish me luck!

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    • Kelly said:


      I work for judicial in CT and have been the clerk for numerous civil (not criminal) jury selections. Don’t worry about being late — a lot of people don’t even show up! You can give the courthouse that you’re reporting to a call but it’s not a big deal. Definitely bring a book, water, snacks, and a sweater! The courts I’ve worked at let you park in the employee lot and there are vending machines.

      Good luck!!

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  3. Ariana said:

    I’m so appreciative of this post of tips and a walk through! I haven’t ever had to go to jury duty before but I always wonder about it!

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  4. Elle said:

    What a great post! I can’t believe you had Jury Duty a day before I did. You had a MUCH different experience than I did. As you know, I live in NYC and it was pure torture. Here in the court you had to be on time or else you would get kicked out and sent to another building 10 mins away to reschedule for another day, they actually took that really seriously. I was there from 9-4:45pm and was sitting the whole entire time. What was so strange was that no one was called up or sent away to meet with a lawyer or other personnel. Myself and over 100 people sat there the entire day minus our brief lunch break. It was so so strange! Then around 4:45 we all were able to go home and none of us were selected (because they never interviewed any of us). I sure was happy I brought snacks and a good book or else I would have gone nuts! xo elle

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  5. Jessica said:

    Hi! Great post, spot on. I was chosen for jury duty in December and ended up being chosen. It was a very serious trial that lasted a week. As you said, it takes away the veil of niavety I’ve hidden behind and made me think about issues I’ve never had to face. In all, it was a fascinating look inside the court system and how our judicial system works. I leaned A LOT. It made me appreciate the men and women who chose to do this for their living.

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    • Jessica said:

      I’ll also add that we HAD to be in the room on time or they shut the door and we had to reschedule.

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  6. Meghan said:

    Hi Kate,
    I am a District Attorney in San Diego. I have to say, your debrief of Jury Duty was spot on. I am so glad you had an experience that has impacted you. Thank you for coming to Jury Duty… so many citizens don’t. We, as the criminal justice system, could not do our job without people like you showing up and serving your duty.

    So thank you!

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  7. Bec said:

    It’s interesting how different it seems to Australian jury duty from my experience. When your number is called here, you walk past both sets of lawyers on the way to the jury box & they can say no (well the meaning was no, the words were something else. and the prosecution & defence had different words.). If you got to the jury box (which I didn’t, as I was always turned down walking past the lawyers probably because I was just 18 at the time), then they would ask if anyone had commitments or biases & if they did they would call another number. I feel as if the actual more interview type process that happens in the US is probably better for getting minimal bias on the jury. I honestly like jury duty & am sort of looking forward to doing it again in March.

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  8. Diane said:

    Great read! I have been called to jury duty twice in my life but never selected to be a juror. The first time they didn’t want me because I worked for the insurance company that insured the airplane that had crashed. The pilot had been killed. So, of course with that huge of a connection to the case, they didn’t want me. I was ruled out almost immediately and went home.

    The second time the notified me the day before going to the jury selection at the court house, they notified me that I did not need to come. Evidently the case had been moved to another time?? Anyway, I didn’t have to go.

    I really would not care to serve on a jury, but it is our civic duty to do so, and if I were ever arrested for a crime that I was innocent of, I would want to know that 12 of my peers would be there for me and hopefully make the right decision in the end.

    Thanks for sharing your experience!

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  9. Meaghan said:

    Kate – this was such an interesting post – and yes totally made it to the bottom :] The wide array of content you offer has been so fun to read.

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  10. Kristen said:

    Kate, thanks for the information! I would have jury duty at the Collin County Courthouse, so it’s interesting to hear what Dallas is like! I got called while I was in college, but didn’t have to go because I was out of state. I will definitely bring a million books if I do get called again!

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  11. Marta said:

    I don’t live in the USA and we don’t have juries here but I still found this post very interesting.

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  12. Natalie said:

    Thank you so much for writing this post! I was selected for jury service in March and have been anxious about it ever since. I feel a little less stressed knowing about how the process works and what to bring to the courthouse. I will definitely be utilizing these tips!

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  13. Thank you SO much for sharing this! I’m headed in on Monday and am totally clueless! I’ve been called once before but didn’t even make it on the panel as a potential juror (whew!). Fingers crossed for the same experience this week, but if not I’m sure glad to know what the rest of the process looks like! xo

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  14. Carly T Young said:

    Okay, I super love this post. My father is a criminal defense attorney, so I know how much goes into these matters and what an emotional toll it can take. Thank you so much for sharing, Kate!

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  15. I am so glad you posted this. I have jury duty coming up on the 20th, and I am a mix of terrified and nervous! The 1st time I was called, back in November – we were all called on the phone the night before saying that our services were no longer needed. I only live 1 mile from the courthouse in a small town, so I can run home for lunch (and no paying for parking, unlike in Dallas).

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  16. Melanie said:

    Omg I have jury duty at dallas criminal courts in March! Thank you for all the info!!!! I’m so nervous!! Can I bring my iPad for my book (kindle books on there) or do I need a paperback?

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  17. Laura said:

    I was selected as a juror about 4 years ago now. It was an interesting experience to say the least. The selection process was a little different for me. From the large jury panel, 12 were called up and we were the only ones questioned. The lawyers were able to let people go then another would be called from the large group to replace them. You’re right, the ones who stay silent are chosen. Lesson learned!

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  18. Deborah H. said:

    Thank you so much for your information! I have been called to serve for jury duty on January 2 coming up and I was nervous not really knowing what to expect. Your post has eased my mind and gave me useful information to take with me :) Thank you so much!

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